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Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle


This book is a gift! I've been practicing their strategies, and it's a total game-changer.' Brené Brown, PhD, author of the #1 New York Times bestseller DARE TO LEAD This groundbreaking book explains why women experience burnout differently than men - and provides a simple, science-based plan to help women minimize stress, manage emotions and live a more joyful life. The gap between what it's really like to be a woman and what people expect women to be is a primary cause of burnout, because we exhaust ourselves trying to close the space between the two. How can you 'love your body' when everything around you tells you you're inadequate? How do you 'lean in' at work when you're already giving 110% and aren't recognized for it? How can you live happily and healthily in a world that is constantly telling you you're too fat, too needy, too noisy and too selfish? Sisters Emily Nagoski, Ph.D., the bestselling author of Come as You Are, and Amelia Nagoski, DMA, are here to help end the cycle of overwhelm and exhaustion, and confront the obstacles that stand between women and well-being. With insights from the latest science, prescriptive advice, and helpful worksheets and exercises, Burnout reveals: * what you can do to complete the biological stress cycle - and return your body to a state of relaxation. * how to manage the 'monitor' in your brain that regulates the emotion of frustration. * how the Bikini Industrial Complex makes it difficult for women to love their bodies - and how to fight back. * why rest, human connection, and befriending your inner critic are key to recovering from and preventing burnout. Eye-opening, compassionate and optimistic, Burnout will completely transform the way we think about and manage stress, empowering women to thrive under pressure and enjoy meaningful yet balanced lives. All women will find something transformative in these pages - and be empowered to create positive and lasting change.


 

A Compassionate Guide to Women's Well-being

In "Burnout: The Secret to Solving the Stress Cycle," sisters Emily Nagoski, PhD, and Amelia Nagoski, DMA, offer a groundbreaking perspective on the unique challenges women face in today's world and provide a science-based plan to help them overcome burnout. With compassion, empathy, and wit, the authors delve into the complexities of women's experiences and offer practical strategies for minimizing stress, managing emotions, and living a more joyful life.

The book begins by addressing the discrepancy between societal expectations placed on women and the reality of navigating those expectations. From the pressures to achieve physical perfection to the demands of the workplace, women often find themselves exhausted from trying to meet unrealistic standards. However, instead of dismissing these challenges, the Nagoski sisters acknowledge them with understanding and offer empowering solutions.

At the core of their approach is the concept of completing the biological stress cycle. By understanding how stress manifests in the body and learning techniques to release it, women can restore their sense of well-being and resilience. The authors provide actionable advice on managing emotions, navigating societal pressures, and fostering self-compassion.

One of the book's strengths is its incorporation of eye-opening scientific research, presented in a relatable and accessible manner. Through engaging anecdotes and practical examples, readers gain insights into the inner workings of their minds and bodies, empowering them to make informed choices for their well-being.

Additionally, "Burnout" addresses the pervasive influence of the Bikini Industrial Complex, which perpetuates harmful beauty standards and undermines women's self-esteem. The authors provide strategies for resisting societal pressures and cultivating a positive body image rooted in self-acceptance and self-love.

Throughout the book, Emily and Amelia Nagoski emphasize the importance of rest, human connection, and befriending one's inner critic as essential components of combating burnout. By reframing wellness as an attainable goal achievable through self-compassion and self-care, they empower women to prioritize their mental and emotional health.

In conclusion, "Burnout: The Secret to Solving the Stress Cycle" is a transformative guide that offers women practical tools for reclaiming their well-being in a world filled with stress and pressure. With its blend of scientific insights, empathetic guidance, and empowering strategies, this book is a valuable resource for anyone seeking to break free from the cycle of burnout and live a more fulfilling life.

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Emily Nagoski

Emily Nagoski, writer. educator. researcher. activist. From

Championing Sexual Wellbeing and Empowerment

About the Author: Dr. Emily Nagoski is a dedicated advocate for sexual wellbeing and empowerment, renowned for her expertise in sex education, psychology, and health behavior. With over two decades of experience in the field, Emily has made significant contributions to the advancement of sexual literacy and gender empowerment.

Emily's journey in sex education began in 1995 when she embarked on a path as a peer health educator at the University of Delaware. Trained to educate her peers on various topics including stress, nutrition, physical activity, and sexual health, Emily quickly found her passion in sexual violence prevention and response, ultimately shaping her career as a sex educator.

Despite initially pursuing a degree in Psychology with the intention of becoming a clinical neuropsychologist, Emily's profound connection to her work in sex education and violence prevention led her to redefine her career path. She furthered her education at Indiana University, earning an M.S. in Counseling Psychology and a Ph.D. in Health Behavior with a concentration in human sexuality.

Throughout her academic journey, Emily taught graduate and undergraduate classes in human sexuality, relationships, communication, stress management, and sex education, honing her expertise in these critical areas. Her time at Indiana University was marked by collaborations with leading experts in the field of sex science, shaping her commitment to advancing sexual wellbeing.

After eight years as a lecturer and Director of Wellness Education at Smith College, Emily transitioned to full-time writing and speaking engagements, focusing on training professionals, educating college students, and advocating for sexual literacy. She is a trained Gottman Seven Principles educator, with specialized training in bystander intervention, motivational interviewing, and cultural inclusivity.

Emily's mission is to empower women to embrace confidence and joy within their bodies, advocating for a world where sexual wellbeing is celebrated and prioritized. Her influential work extends beyond academia, with her second book, "Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle," co-authored with her twin sister Amelia, offering insights into managing stress and achieving balance in life.

With her upcoming book, "Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections," slated for release in January 2024, Emily Nagoski continues to inspire individuals to embrace authentic sexuality and foster meaningful connections.

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Reviewed in the United States on January 3, 2024

Reviewed in the United States on July 21, 2023
The word burnout crept up in my everyday use since 2019 – and then the pandemic hit. No travel. No casual shopping. No conferences. None of the usual ways to break up the days. Burnout, especially at work, snuck up on me. Much like my own burnout, Emily and Amelia Nagoski's book, Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle, snuck up on me too.

"First coined as a technical term by Herbert Freudenberger in 1975, "burnout" was defined by three components:

1. emotional exhaustion—the fatigue that comes from caring too much, for too long;

2. depersonalization—the depletion of empathy, caring, and compassion;

3. decreased sense of accomplishment—an unconquerable sense of futility: feeling that nothing you do makes any difference.

Written with women in mind, Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle talks about the big and little stressors we experience daily – from the patriarchy (ugh) to the "second shift" most women have after work at home (house chores, caregiving). Compared to what it's like to be a woman, what's expected of women creates burnout without even realizing it. The authors discuss the Bikini Industrial Complex and the microaggressions women regularly experience for not looking, acting, or speaking in a certain way.

Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle goes on to discuss how to complete the stress cycle. When we experience fight, flight, or freeze responses, our bodies react to those chemicals even though we are rarely in actual life-or-death experiences. The problems arise when we experience those reactions and don't get the fulfillment of knowing we are no longer in a life-or-death situation.

Too many women, especially women of color, grow up with unconscious biases about how we should behave, which is only exacerbated by others around us with unconscious biases. Before you know it, we're working ourselves too much, developing physical symptoms from a life of microaggressions and minor stressors, and we reach a breaking point. A part of this book encourages you to be aware of times in your life when you need to move on from whatever is causing you stress.

I appreciate a great deal about this book, but I loved how the authors didn't promise your burnout will magically go away if you take luxurious baths every night or try and "lean in" at work more. The premise of Burnout empowers us to accept ourselves exactly as we are and know that we are enough.

Buy Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle because we all need to work on unconscious biases around women at home, work, and in the world.
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Chantelle Sprenger
5.0 out of 5 stars A good companion to the book
Reviewed in Canada on January 11, 2024

Alejandra
5.0 out of 5 stars One of the best books I’ve ever read
Reviewed in Mexico on December 3, 2021

Skeeterdani
5.0 out of 5 stars very helpful book!
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on July 27, 2023

Jackie
5.0 out of 5 stars Great book
Reviewed in France on June 14, 2022

Laura
1.0 out of 5 stars No lo recomiendo
Reviewed in Spain on June 3, 2022
Debería haber leído las reseñas antes de comprarlo. Este libro no es maravilloso, ni va a cambiarte la vida, por mucho que insistan en ponerlo en las reseñas de la portada y en repetirlo a lo largo del libro. "Le dije a X que hiciera esto y me dijo que le cambió la vida", y solo porque está escrito este testimonio tengo que creérmelo. Y los consejos.....empieza hablando de verte atrapado en un atasco y continúa diciendo que todas las situaciones difíciles son provechosas, entonces pasa a ejemplos cómo "hacer ejercicio es dificil pero te da músculos", nunca jamás te explican cómo volver la situación del atasco provechosa. Más tarde, hablando del "Monitor" básicamente te dice que bajes tus expectativas, si algo no te va bien, baja tus expectativas. ¿en serio? Claro obviamente si bajo mis expectativas para que lo que tengo sea suficiente, pues tendré cero problemas. Es tan sencillo como ir conformándose por la vida... en fin. Y para rematarla intenta demostrarte que esto es eficaz, simplemente diciendo que una cantante que trabajaba con la autora le dijo "Eso del Monitor, eso de controlar las expectativas, ha cambiado mi vida, por completo!"
Y solo llevo 39 páginas...
Había que desconfiar de un libro que tiene las portadas llenas de comentarios de gente que de lo exagerados que son me queda claro que son puro marketing, como que una tal Peggy Orenstein se echó a llorar de agradecimiento al leer el libro... Yo voy a llorar pero de lo poco útil que me resulta...
Decepcionada :(

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